Again, it is Homelessness

There are more than 1.6 million homeless children living in the United States, says The National Center on Family Homelessness. That's one in every 45 American kids who goes to sleep at night without a bed to call their own. Families with young children now account for about one third of the homeless population. And in case you are wondering why, the recession caused a 50 percent jump in the number of students identified as homeless in school districts throughout the country. Here are seven things about being a homeless kid that you probably didn't know:

1. Making friends is harder when you're homeless.
Carey Fuller, who lives in her car with her 11-year-old daughter Maggie Warner in the Pacific Northwest, said she "cringed" when she recently took Maggie out to play in a park. Things were going fine until "someone asked her where she lived," Fuller explained. It's the death knell question, the one that throws the wet blanket on the playdate and it's usually just a matter of seconds before the other kid takes off in the direction of someone else.

"Maggie smiled and I changed the subject and off they went to play until it was time to go just before sunset," said Fuller. A happy ending, this time. Yes, it has happened more than once. Not to state the obvious, but you can't have kids over to play or have a friend sleep over if your home is the car.

Fuller became homeless after losing her job in the financial services sector in Seattle. Initially, the family downsized to a smaller apartment, but when that still proved too costly, Fuller bought an RV and moved into it with her two daughters. Maggie was a toddler at the time. The family has since downsized to a minivan. Fuller, who takes whatever part-time work she can find, is well-known as an advocate for homeless kids and writes about her life as a homeless mother living in a van.

2. Birthdays can be disappointing for a homeless kid.
Forget having a big party with lots of friends coming over. Sure you can have a party in the park if it's a nice day. But who is going to pay for the pizza and cake and if people give you presents, where will you put them anyway?

This year Birthday Dreams brought over a cake and a gift when Maggie turned 11. For the past five years, Birthday Dreams has been providing birthday parties to homeless children in the Puget Sound area. A lot of homeless kids have never seen their names on a birthday cakes, notes the Birthday Dreams website. And yeah, they get pretty thrilled.

3. Canned food drives don't actually make much sense.
"Where are homeless people supposed to cook all those cans of food you collect?" asks Maggie Warner. Homeless people have no kitchens, she points out.

Gift cards or a credit to the grocery store where they can buy fresh fruit and pre-made meals makes more sense. But some donors are reluctant to do this because they think homeless people will use the money for beer or alcohol.

4. Homeless kids aren't as healthy as kids with homes.
The National Center on Family Homelessness says that homeless kids have four times as many respiratory infections, twice as many ear infections and five times more gastrointestinal problems. They are three times more likely to have emotional and behavioral problems than non-homeless children.

Being homeless is stressful and practicing good hygiene is harder when you don't have ready access to bathrooms, sinks and showers. Homeless kids are also exposed to the weather and elements. Homelessness is connected to poverty and when you are poor, you often must rely on free clinics for health care; seeing doctors is not a regular thing.

5. Homeless kids may try hard but are more likely to struggle in school.
Of homeless elementary students, only 21.5 percent are proficient in math and 24.4 percent in reading. It is even worse among high school students, where just 11.4 percent are proficient in math and 14.6 percent in reading.

Try as they might, getting good grades is just harder when you are a homeless kid. For one, your parents -- and statistically speaking, you likely live with just your mom -- are probably busy trying to find food and safe shelter each night. There's no dining room table around which to gather, spread out your books and notes and do homework together. A lot of homeless kids rely on the public library as the safe, warm place to do homework -- you can even use a computer there. But budget cuts have reduced library hours and, by extension, study time. You can't study if there are no lights on in your car. Not having a place to study matters a lot. If the teacher gives the class a project, you and your project partners will need to meet in the library or at their house. Same is true for study groups.

Agnes Stevens, a retired teacher, began tutoring homeless kids in a park in Santa Monica, Calif., encouraging them to stay in school and participate in school activities.In 1993, she founded School on Wheels, a program that tutors homeless kids in six Southern California counties. The organization also provides backpacks, school supplies and school uniforms for homeless kids and helps their parents navigate school resources. The group runs two learning centers too.

6. Homeless kids put up with a lot of daily indignities, small things that you probably don't realize.
They appreciate getting your used clothing donations, but once in a while they'd like to wear something without some other kid's name written in it. They also don't feel great sneaking in the school bathroom before class to brush their teeth, but it's often the only place available. Maybe there's a way to issue them a free lunch card that looks like the lunch card everyone else uses? If their family doesn't have a post office box, it's hard to mail home their report card. They don't want everyone to know if the PTA paid for them to go on the class field trip. School projects that involve a trip to the crafts store for supplies pose a special burden on their families who can't afford it. Participating in sports sounds great, but soccer cleats and baseball uniforms aren't exactly in the budget. A lost textbook is a problem for a regular kid; a lost textbook is a catastrophe for a homeless kid.

7. Homeless kids are a pretty resilient lot.
When The Huffington Post asked Maggie what she wanted to say to our readers, this is what she said: "Never give up and never stop hoping things will get better even when you feel like you're at the bottom."www.amazon.com/author/gwilder

It came from his room/excerpt

The house was big and beautiful and nothing like we had ever experienced and lived before. The children emerged from the car and ran towards their new and gorgeous home with glee.  My wife and I railed at their excitement. Actually we were all excited with giggles about our new home. And it was about time, that I finally owned something that no one could take away from me. It was located in South Peterson, Illinois, with a population of only a few thousand. We wanted to get away as far as we could from Chicago. This was a suburb where nothing exciting ever happened and after Chicago, that was the way we wanted it to be. It had everything but the white picket fence out front. We could always erect one later. My wife, Lisa Thurman and I, Mark Thurman had pooled our hard earned resources over number of years along with some long term savings to buy this house that could be best described as being out in the middle of no where, however, we loved it.  It was a wonderful ranch style home, however, without the horses.  This was a single family home of about two thousand and four hundred square feet with three bedrooms and two bathrooms.  The exterior included a two car garage and a fantastic driveway. No more of living on top of and right next to rowdy and noisy neighbors. Wooden and pine oaked floors almost in every room of the house.

The interior could only be explained as immaculate. There was central air, a fireplace, glossy hardwood and tiled floors even in the bathroom. We loved it. The furniture had arrived about an hour ago before we had come. As mentioned, our children Amy eleven and Jeffery twelve, quickly darted and ran to claim their rooms which were located on the second floor of our new home. Once inside, I immediately claimed the den. My wife was sold on the spacious bedrooms. I had been recently promoted at the employment agency where I worked now as an assistant district manager. My wife Lisa was a Chicago Public School teacher and she was pulling down the big bucks. So, therefore, we would have no problems paying the monthly high mortgage as long as they did not lay her off as was being talked about. I was the district manager of Shelby’s Park District.  As a family, we were all smiles.

The city life had really taken its toll my wife and I. We wanted a safe place for our children to play and grow up and to have good and solid friends. We all knew that there was no real escape from crime and that it could hit anywhere, anytime, and anyone.  However, we knew that in South Peterson, Illinois deadly crime was not an everyday occurrence. After a few weeks, as the family had become so attached to the house it was so unbelievable. I could not wait to get our children out of public schools, in my view; they have become some of the worse in the nation. With all the noise locally and nationally, I knew that I wanted my kids in a safer neighborhood and a school where they could learn without the media sticking a microphone up in their young faces. I believe we had found that.

My wife and I always enjoyed a clean house, and this house deserved nothing less. She had learned it from her parents, and so did I learn from my own, parents. After a few weeks, Amy’s room could have stood some improving; however, on the other hand, Jeffery’s room was always a colossal mess. His clothes were hanging half way out of his dresser drawers. Half eaten hamburger sandwiches and French fries were located way under his bed now with mold. His rotting manure was slimed upside the walls. Urine covered the beddings. We figured with plenty of input coated with immense threats from the both of us, would do the trick.  We wanted the entire house to be one as it pertains to cleanliness. This was going to be hard work for my little Jeffery.  

This was the life. We had a nice car, a house, lovely children, and we were finally away from Chicago, a beautiful city but just not for my family. On this wonderful Saturday morning I wanted to step out and see the neighborhood and try and meet some of our new neighbors. I’m sure that someone saw us moving into the house. However, they did not bother to come over and introduce themselves. I finally had a real house to call home. It was exciting, my wife and I had worked very hard for this day. As I walked around, Peterson, Illinois, it was a very quiet place not many people were out and...

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They Are Our Children

Just Released  through Amazon "They are our Children."

This is a parenting book unlike any other. It is about the innocent children being preyed upon by predator parents. The book mostly talks about how not to be an extremely bad or a disengage parent of small and teenage children. It talks about how children who are born into this world knowing nothing at all about their parents, their environment, and the up bringing that will tell the entire story whether it’s good or bad. It talks about how to prevent the child from becoming a bad girl or the bad guy, and soon to hurt another child. Key points will be stressed again and again throughout this book

This can take place in any inner city within the United States. The author's main goal here is to try and save innocent children from the mean streets. There are thousands and more parenting books out there; however, this is the first to hold the parent’s feet to the fire in such a dramatic fashion. Most young children bad their actions can come from just plain awful parenting. The parents maybe drug addicts, they may be illiterate, or they may not have the mindset to be good parents, and they may be thugs teaching their children to be thugs. They are so many parents who do not love their children. There are so many parents who let their children rule their households. There are some parents who refuse to talk to their children. There are so many parents who just throw their children away and the child join gangs and sometimes it end up even worse. There are good parents everywhere; however, there are too many awful ones. What are we, if we can’t help a great child survive to discover his or her potential? This one is very interesting...

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Dear unemployed people of America,
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February 2014 

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March 2014

George Wilder Jr. is a resident of the State of Illinois. Mr. Wilder is currently on a online book tour.He has taught his brand of writing to those who crave the craft for years. He has been invited to schools, book clubs, and has taught writing in both fiction and nonfiction. He is also sought out for his professionalism when doing book reviews other authors. He is affiliated with authors of all genres. He attended Harold Washington College.He also attended Taylor Business www.amazon.com/author/gwilder College. He discovered his writing ability in grammar school. He refused to allow others to make little of his craft. Mr. Wilder has been praised for his willingness to help others with results. He is a storyteller. He is an eBook writer. His works includes his thoughts real and clear. Mr. Wilder is an true original. His writings ring loud and clear of some things in his own life and others whether fiction or nonfiction and many essays. He write stories that others can relate to and learn from. He is always searching for great stories about life's up and downs and its joys to tell and explore. He is proud of everything he has done and everything that he will do. His novels are crafted by him. His writings are fun, sometimes funny, and very insightful. George was first published in 1996, a small local newspaper called the Chicago Defender. He has also been published in the Chicago Sun-times and the Chicago Parent Magazine. His articles, books, ebooks, essays, poetry, and short stories have garnered rave reviews from friends, family, and readers of all ages. He is a writer that doesn't act like a writer, Mr. Wilder thinks of himself as just another writer sharing what he loves to do. He is a serious writer of fiction and nonfiction. Mr. Wilder has been called the poison pen. He also is a parent and a provider. Mr. Wilder is avid reader of all genres. He writes the kind of fiction and nonfiction that he himself would love to read, what he knows many readers will crave. In his spare time, Mr.Wilder likes fishing, playing golf, chess, dancing, walks by the lake, going to the gym, shopping, video games, and being a parent. "I think of myself as just an ordinary person in every aspect, however, I do not think I'm any different from any other writer. I'm always writing or thinking about writing something. I love taking my laptop over by the lake near the park and coming up with fresh ideas to write about, whether fiction or nonfiction. There is really is something about finding a nice place in the shade, with milk and cookies on hand, sitting down and looking up at the mild sun and the evening skies and saying, "now, I'm ready." I love writing and creating eBook titles, covers, and characters, it is something I will do until the end of time. George Wilder Jr. stays busy always with projects slated for 2014 and 2015. Have a great one! BECOME A FAN.

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Hi, EVERYONE!!!Here's wishing all a happy and prosperous 

new year and beyond. I want to to remind everyone that 

there are only 11 short months left. It's time to quit 

worrying about who is going to run for president in 2016 

and to focus on what congress we're going to hand our 

current president in 2014. 

It's time to remind people who caused the shut down and 

why. It's time to remind people who has held this country 

back by their refusal to govern. It's time to remind people 

who wants to take away social security, medicare, food 

stamps, unemployment, health care and women's 

rights.


It's time to remind people of the money republicans wasted 

trying to defeat DOMA and ACA. It's rime to remind people 

about blackmail by republicans And most importantly, it's 


time for democrats to come together and GET OUT THE 


VOTE....